Sunday, December 2, 2007

Mood awake 3

Just tonight I responded to someone on my "friends list" here who posted a bulletin about how she required her boyfriend or hubby to get rid of his friends or add her.

I read it wrong to be honest and thought it was the other way around. My bad, but Im still right. Manipulators are shitty human beings and insecure as well.

I was engaged last year to an ubermanipulator who demanded I delete my female friends from my Myspace page. Some of these women were married or were friends of mine from school who now lived in other parts of the country. She especially wanted a couple in particular off my page immediately cause as it turns out they were on to what a game player she was. I didnt see what those friends saw until it was WAY too late, and these same ladies (who btw had no interest in me) all tried to tell me to "run like fucking hell". In other words they were a real threat to her.

Of course I didnt listen, and got fucked. Not before hurting my friends by deleting them.

I at the same time wasnt happy with some of the guys on her page but up til then didnt say a hell of a lot. Didnt matter that she strangely set her profile to single instead of in a relationship, and some of the guys comments were along the lines of lets fuck and other things. There were also hints she was talking with these guys on the phone and on messenger.

I always told her if I talked to a friend online or on the phone. I have no problem being honest.
She of course lied about her extra curricular contacts. I also had my status set to in a relationship - I made no mistake about my status and led noone on about being taken

Of course when I demanded the same in return my ex balked. They were here platonic friends only. I also said what gives about the status setting. She said it was a glitch lol

Of course two months later she dumped me for one of her platonic friends. Thankfully Karma struck and he dumped her a few months later when she started pulling the same shit with him.

My female friends she wanted me to delete are still my best friends btw. Never once have we ever breached the friendship into fuck buddy or relationship land and we never will.

Women can usually see through women, and men can usually see through men. When you are in love your friends have ways of seeing things you go out of your way to avoid seeing. I have mostly female friends for a reason. When I meet someone I kind of like the feeling that anything I miss they wont. It also works in reverse since many seem to have me view messages and profiles like I am a big brother.

So of course the person here is pissed I dared comment on her bulletin. She then told me "Its not any of your business anyway"
Really - your the stupid drama queen that had to post the bulletin and wanted a response. I even told her I hope he wises up and kicks her insecure controlling ass to the curb
But she is right it isnt my business. However here is a stern warning and maybe her significant other is reading this.

If anyone demands you delete your friends here and refuses to do the same in return - big warning. Never let anyone control or manipulate you into giving up ANY friend unless that friend is truly interfering with the relationship.

Personally dude if your reading this I would save yourself the heartbreak and run. Your current seems to be as big a manipulative drama queen as my ex. Dont walk through this minefield if you can avoid it.

peace
TC

No comments:

The Peter Answers

How to Use Peter Answers

from wikiHow - The How to Manual That You Can Edit
Peter answers is a fun little website in which "Peter" appears to read your mind. Use it to prank your friends or to just have a little fun.

Steps

Visit http://www.peteranswers.com where there are two text boxes: "Insert Petition" and "Insert Question."
Ask your audience for a question. If it's a question you know the answer to, proceed to the next step. If it's a question you don't know the answer to, you can ask them for the answer, telling them that if they say the question and answer out loud, Peter will hear them with his psychic powers. If you don't know the answer, you won't be able to follow the next step, and Peter will answer with a very generic statement like "You shall not doubt of me at all, keep trusting on me and soon I'll answer." In other words, the trick won't work!
Enter text into the petition box. The directions tell you to type in either "Peter, please answer the following question:" or "Peter, please answer:" in the petition box. What your audience doesn't know is that you're telling Peter the answer...
- Note the colon ":" at the end of each of these queries. This is essential because without it, you will not be able to proceed to the question box. Once you type the phrase and enter the colon, your cursor will automatically move to the question box.
- Instead of typing "Peter, please answer the following question:" or "Peter, please answer:" start off your petition with a period followed by the answer you're looking for. For example, if you intend to ask "Why is wikiHow the best how-to manual ever?" then in the petition box you would type.Because it's a group effort
- As you type the answer you're looking for, that's not what you will see showing up in the text box. You will see the standard petition being typed, even though you're typing something completely different. Your audience, however, will have their eyes on the screen and will never suspect that you're giving Peter the answer.
- Your answer should be shorter than one of the standard petitions. When you finish typing the answer, the standard petition will still need to be finished on the screen. In the following screenshot, all that has been typed is ".Because it's a group effort."
- So, after you type the answer, end it with a period. The period will show up as another character of the petition. After the period, however, anything you type will show up on the screen as you type it. Finish whatever is left of the query and send it off with a colon. In this screenshot, the actual typing was ".Because it's a group effort.owing:"
Type in the question. Be sure to end it with a question mark "?". As soon as you enter the question mark, a box will appear with some warnings about privacy. For Peter to answer the question, you'll need to click the "I Accept" button.
Watch as Peter thinks for a second and then displays the answer that you typed. If your audience doesn't know that you typed in the answer, they will be flabbergasted. You can probably keep them amazed for quite a while as long as they don't start paying close attention to what your fingers are actually typing.

Tips

When you're typing in the petition box, it helps to NOT look at the screen, because it can throw you off and make you forget what you're typing. Instead, look down as you type the answer. Only look up after you've typed the period to check how much of the query is finished.
Peter is only as accurate as you are, so if you enter a typo, Peter will answer with a typo, and people will get suspicious pretty quickly. If you think you made a mistake, you can backspace and start again at any point. If you delete all of what you entered, remember to enter a period again to signal to Peter that you're entering the answer. But, deleting everything you entered is not a good idea because people will wonder why you're erasing a perfectly good petition.
If you're typing a short answer, you can save time by completing only the shorter petition phrase (Peter, please answer:)
You can also tell your viewers to stare at the screen so that they can correct any spelling errors that you might make.

Warnings

Peter will accept and display answers that are longer than the petition phrase, but it will be pretty obvious something is up if you continue to type after the screen displays the entire petition phrase. Nothing more will show up once you've reached the end of the phrase. Once in a while, at the bottom instead of the repeating "Peter answers:..." it will say "Emily answers" or another name. No one knows for sure what happens at that point.
As soon as you type a colon ":" the cursor will automatically jump to the question box, even if you haven't finished typing out the petition. This will likely ruin the illusion, so don't accidentally type that colon too soon.

Sources and Citations

PeterAnswers.com

Article provided by wikiHow, a collaborative writing project to build the world's largest, highest quality how-to manual. Please edit this article and find author credits at the original wikiHow article on How to Use Peter Answers. All content on wikiHow can be shared under a Creative Commons license.

Technorati Profile Subscribe to "GoogleDevelopers" via Code-groups in Google Reader by Email

Get Indexed